William Shakespeare redefined or probably invented the term “Romance” for the current generation when he created all those amazing scenes depicting a “mental intimacy” among the couples seeking “peer-bonds” that can lead to a physical relationship. “Romeo and Juliet” and “As you like it” are an example of romance where couples fantasize about the moments that “they never have, but they can have.” Both the tales are an immortal and inspiring new set of dreams and fantasies among the natives of new generations. Now, this is what we call the “sheer power of unadulterated romance.”
Let’s
put some logic in it with the help of an Ink-Blot test
The
technique of Ink-blot test was developed in the year 1921, a group of psychologists
developed some ambiguous images to evaluate the mental condition of various
patients. Patients were shown some ink-blots marked on a paper, individuals
with negative or disturbed mindsets either find them distorted or horrible, at the
same time, individuals with a positive mindset figured out symmetric and soothing
patterns in the same ink-blots.
Mental
intimacy for “soothing and symmetric” patterns
During
the phase of a romantic interlude, a couple joins the ink-blots of the signals
given by the other partner in the asymmetric and soothing pattern, for instance,
an emoticon showing heart shape coming from the side of your romantic partner
carries a different meaning when you compare it with the emotional impact of the
same emoticon on various other posts.
The
notions of “colors appearing brighter, breeze cajoling the senses, proximity
with the unknown horizons of nature and the search for the other side of the
rainbow are all positive impacts that romance can cast upon you. They are not flimsy;
they are real because you are living them. They are real because they are
enforcing a flow of positive hormones in you. It is your universe where you are
a hero or heroine and you have all the rights to live in this “romantic
paradise.”
Enjoy
the phase and keep aside the logic and reasoning
Romance
is sheer madness, please acknowledge this fact and move ahead in life. Consider
it as the next level of childhood fantasies. A romantic interlude is a
blessing. Enjoy this phase of life without any hindrances; allow this phase to
discover your taste in the field of fine arts. Understand, every romantic feeling,
shows that you are an artistic individual. It shows that you have a special
personal side attached to you. Nurture this personal side of yours. Stay a daydreamer
throughout your life; wait for that romantic partner to hit you at the right
spot. Search individuals and scan them internally on the quotient of “mental intimacy.”
Try to figure out that method in your romantic madness.
Romancing
someone in your dreams or accommodating someone in your wildest dream nurtures
your emotional faculty; it forces you to look at yourself from an objective
point of view. It stimulates your brain to develop a new positive perspective
about life. Never forget, most of the cosmetic companies, fitness solutions,
and means of entertainment are thriving because people across the world are seeking
products that can feed and satiate their romantic needs.
Love
yourself because you are romantic
Romance
is an intoxication that allows us to explore the beautiful side of the existing
and ugly world where we are living. Mental intimacy is a kind of mental engagement;
utilize it to bring some positive changes in your personality. There is no harm
in living a “make belief” world where you are acting as a protagonist of a love
story. Feel positive about yourself and explore yourself in this new
wonderland,
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